stressed asked:
Or, should I say my husbands problems? I just found out after being married to him for 14 years that I don’t know him at all. Sure, he has always had a drinking problem, which lately has turned into more of a problem, and more beer. But I just found out for the last year and a half he has been using cocaine. He swears he can quit, which is why he told me. He says I am his anchor and he needs me, but where is my anchor? I had a hard enough time dealing with the alcohol. I mean he’s not violent, but he picks nights that he just doensn’t come home. He tells me also that it is my fault. I work full time. I leave home at 6:30 and get home between 6 and 7 every weeknight, then its pick up my daugters, cook dinner, clean, wash clothes, homework, attention for them, and where is my time? He is angry because I don’t “do enough”around the house during the week and don’t give him enough attention. Am I wrong? Im trying with everything in me.
Cory
Or, should I say my husbands problems? I just found out after being married to him for 14 years that I don’t know him at all. Sure, he has always had a drinking problem, which lately has turned into more of a problem, and more beer. But I just found out for the last year and a half he has been using cocaine. He swears he can quit, which is why he told me. He says I am his anchor and he needs me, but where is my anchor? I had a hard enough time dealing with the alcohol. I mean he’s not violent, but he picks nights that he just doensn’t come home. He tells me also that it is my fault. I work full time. I leave home at 6:30 and get home between 6 and 7 every weeknight, then its pick up my daugters, cook dinner, clean, wash clothes, homework, attention for them, and where is my time? He is angry because I don’t “do enough”around the house during the week and don’t give him enough attention. Am I wrong? Im trying with everything in me.
Cory
