Archive for May, 2009

My wife is trying to solve her parent’s problems on a daily basis. This is annoying me. How to handle this ?

Thursday, May 28th, 2009
Bike Lover asked:


My wife is a wonderful woman and we’ve been married for year and a half. We rarely argue and have no major issues. However, my wife tries to solve her parents problems on a daily basis. I can understand if they are health related issues but they are not. She gets involed with their marital problems and all other issues that should be handled by them. My wife and her dad exchange emails on a daily basis. Today I walked in and she was arguing with her mom on the phone. I tried to politely inform my wife that they should deal with these issues themselves and not involve her married daughter. we got into an argument and there goes my weekend. how do i solve this ? I’m beginning to get irritated with my in-laws and rarely talk to them on phone.

Audrey

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Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 16 Comments »

marital problem,help?

Monday, May 18th, 2009
j-b asked:


i have a prob,last 1day ive got a dispute with my husband,as he wanted to have *** and i didnt want to,so he insulted me telling me that i was an horrible person.so i didnt talk to him,when he came back ystdy he didnt talk either.even 2day hes off,he went to gym.what should i do?am waiting 4him to xcuz himself bcoz hes all at fault.but he seems to be the one who was insulted.hlp pls coz weve never had dispute like this before.
the kind of insult is u nforgiveable.if i could tell u this insult u will be shocked.am really hurt,i know he wont ever ask 4 forgiveness,am i that childish.

Viola

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Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 21 Comments »

help with my marital problem?

Monday, May 4th, 2009
Nazrin B asked:


I’am Nazrin, a muslim girl and I got married recently. my problem is that i don’t like my husband. he is not a bad guy or whatever. it is just that i dont find him attractive. i find him boring. We were engaged for 3 years. During that period itself, i felt he is not my guy and asked my parents to stop the marriage. but they convinced me saying that engagement is like a promise and breaking a promise is sin. and i agreed(was made to agree by sentimental blackmailing) to marry. after marriage i have been living with him for 3 months and still feel no attachment or sense of belonging to him. he is a very simple guy. he doesn;t have any bad habits. he is god-fearing. in all way he is a good person. but i’m not attracted and i dont like having *** with him. i am very confused. am i doing a sin? i dont know what to do. i am a religious person and i am very watchful to stick to islamic rules always. please do advice me to get out of my problem.

Michelle

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Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 5 Comments »

Any Jon and Kate fans? Do you have any info on the season finale?

Sunday, May 3rd, 2009
JustMyOpinion asked:


The previews make it look like their having marital problems, but I wonder if it’s just a way to make viewers interested in tuning in to see what’s going on.

Does anyone know what’s going to happen?

Vivian

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Posted in Parenting | 8 Comments »

What Is Your Experience With Bipolar Disorder?

Saturday, May 2nd, 2009
nacholibre01 asked:


My husband was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about 4 years ago. He has tried a mixture of medications, therapy, hospitalization, etc. Through these years, nothing has seemed to work for him. He is either very depressed (sleeps all of the time, feels, worthless, has thoughts of death) or very manic. (Can take on the world, comes up with master plans,.sings & dances, etc) Recently, he will not schedule his appointments. He needs to be re-evaluated but they will not let me schedule for him. Any ideas? Have you had marital problems because of this disorder? How about your children? What issues have come with that? I need some help with this, as I feel so alone and so frustrated.

John

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Posted in Mental Health | 12 Comments »