fireharted asked:
I have a friend who i did something nice to and in return was mean to me because that person perceived that i was ”after” him and i was causing marital problems for which were totally untrue on my part. That person who was so nice before was mean and when i confronted that person and said what they did was brutal, they just gave a snicker…a so what snarl…. but i got the impression it was kind of half hearted and the person was embarresed that i confronted them. That person probably didn’t expect it. We had been on really good terms and totally on a friendship level. That person took a gift(t-shirt and magazine and newspaper articles, postcards, from a trip and a letter explaining what had been happening in my life as i hadn’t seen this person in months) in the totally wrong way and just did a 180… what are your perceptions?
Lewis
I have a friend who i did something nice to and in return was mean to me because that person perceived that i was ”after” him and i was causing marital problems for which were totally untrue on my part. That person who was so nice before was mean and when i confronted that person and said what they did was brutal, they just gave a snicker…a so what snarl…. but i got the impression it was kind of half hearted and the person was embarresed that i confronted them. That person probably didn’t expect it. We had been on really good terms and totally on a friendship level. That person took a gift(t-shirt and magazine and newspaper articles, postcards, from a trip and a letter explaining what had been happening in my life as i hadn’t seen this person in months) in the totally wrong way and just did a 180… what are your perceptions?
Lewis
