parsley65 asked:
My husband and I have had marital problems on and off for a couple years now. He has friends from before he met me that are his old “work friends.” I found out from him and from his email that he left open in front of me, that he asked the one female friend especially, if she’s ever seen him happy before and basically what he should do. She went on to tell him to basically leave me and that I seem to have too many problems to be with. This woman had a three-way with my husband and her husband before she ever met me. Ever since I’ve met them they are not very nice to me, never ask me anything at all, even though I’ve always tried to strike up a two-way conversation with them, and all they do is talk abou their old job together and old times together when I’ve been around them. For the past couple years I’ve not wanted to hang out with them because they don’t care to know me but I’ve found out they’re making judments about me and telling my husband to leave me now… What should I do?..
Julio
My husband and I have had marital problems on and off for a couple years now. He has friends from before he met me that are his old “work friends.” I found out from him and from his email that he left open in front of me, that he asked the one female friend especially, if she’s ever seen him happy before and basically what he should do. She went on to tell him to basically leave me and that I seem to have too many problems to be with. This woman had a three-way with my husband and her husband before she ever met me. Ever since I’ve met them they are not very nice to me, never ask me anything at all, even though I’ve always tried to strike up a two-way conversation with them, and all they do is talk abou their old job together and old times together when I’ve been around them. For the past couple years I’ve not wanted to hang out with them because they don’t care to know me but I’ve found out they’re making judments about me and telling my husband to leave me now… What should I do?..
Julio
Tags: Email, Female Friend, Old Job
Jean
I would make sure you two never saw these people again. You don’t want people planting seeds of doubt in his brain. Also, I **** computers, few people use them just for business. If it’s a family computer, take it away and tell him you’re having it “fixed”. Then, “lose” his cell phone, so it’s more like the old days, where people had to actually call you up and talk to the wife first!!
Blame it all on bad luck.
Then, IMMEDIATELY go on a wonderful, long weekend or couples retreat! Have a friend write an email from his computer (being fixed LOL) and tell these people that he is having THE BEST time with his BEAUTIFUL wife, and he can’t believe he EVER complained about her!!
Tanya
Leave him he is an ******* and very inmature, find a real man one who wont talk behind your back.. tell him before you leave him that he is a little gossipy girl and that he doesn’t turn you on anymore.. LOL that would do it.. he sounds like an *******.. hope you get rid of him … good luck.