Nazrin B asked:
I’am Nazrin, a muslim girl and I got married recently. my problem is that i don’t like my husband. he is not a bad guy or whatever. it is just that i dont find him attractive. i find him boring. We were engaged for 3 years. During that period itself, i felt he is not my guy and asked my parents to stop the marriage. but they convinced me saying that engagement is like a promise and breaking a promise is sin. and i agreed(was made to agree by sentimental blackmailing) to marry. after marriage i have been living with him for 3 months and still feel no attachment or sense of belonging to him. he is a very simple guy. he doesn;t have any bad habits. he is god-fearing. in all way he is a good person. but i’m not attracted and i dont like having *** with him. i am very confused. am i doing a sin? i dont know what to do. i am a religious person and i am very watchful to stick to islamic rules always. please do advice me to get out of my problem.
Michelle
I’am Nazrin, a muslim girl and I got married recently. my problem is that i don’t like my husband. he is not a bad guy or whatever. it is just that i dont find him attractive. i find him boring. We were engaged for 3 years. During that period itself, i felt he is not my guy and asked my parents to stop the marriage. but they convinced me saying that engagement is like a promise and breaking a promise is sin. and i agreed(was made to agree by sentimental blackmailing) to marry. after marriage i have been living with him for 3 months and still feel no attachment or sense of belonging to him. he is a very simple guy. he doesn;t have any bad habits. he is god-fearing. in all way he is a good person. but i’m not attracted and i dont like having *** with him. i am very confused. am i doing a sin? i dont know what to do. i am a religious person and i am very watchful to stick to islamic rules always. please do advice me to get out of my problem.
Michelle
