Posts Tagged ‘Marriage’
Monday, May 4th, 2009
Nazrin B asked: I’am Nazrin, a muslim girl and I got married recently. my problem is that i don’t like my husband. he is not a bad guy or whatever. it is just that i dont find him attractive. i find him boring. We were engaged for 3 years. During that period itself, i felt he is not my guy and asked my parents to stop the marriage. but they convinced me saying that engagement is like a promise and breaking a promise is sin. and i agreed(was made to agree by sentimental blackmailing) to marry. after marriage i have been living with him for 3 months and still feel no attachment or sense of belonging to him. he is a very simple guy. he doesn;t have any bad habits. he is god-fearing. in all way he is a good person. but i’m not attracted and i dont like having *** with him. i am very confused. am i doing a sin? i dont know what to do. i am a religious person and i am very watchful to stick to islamic rules always. please do advice me to get out of my problem.
Michelle
Tags: Good Person, Marriage, Parents
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 5 Comments »
Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
richallfam asked: We had a happy marraige, until my husband decides that instead, of putting more money in the bank we should take separate bills, and do away with our joint account. I even found out that he had been cheating on me. When I caught him, he stopped seeing the other woman, but we still have not been able to work together with our bills and money. Sometimes when we argue he brings up divorce. I don’t want a divorce, and wish that he would see things differently. Should I persue divorce, or keep trying? We have been to marraige couseling, and plan to continue, however the center is closed right now. We should be going back soon, it seems to have helped a little, but I don’t know if he will continue to go. Yet, we still can’t see eye to eye when it comes to money, and spending time together, because he keeps up the same patterns. I don’t know what to do anymore. Is there a chance in my marriage?
Kristen
Tags: Eye To Eye, Marriage, Spending Time
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 14 Comments »
Monday, December 15th, 2008
stives51 asked: She keeps on telling everyone, about everything that is going on between them. She wants to shift all blame on him, and is trying to sway me and my husband towards her.We have told her we don’t want to take sides. It’s lke she’s wanting us to **** our own son. It took both of them to create their problems and this is Surely not helping matters for them to re-concile. They are grown up and should seek professional help, or resign the end is near of marriage. I try to stay out, am being cordial for grandbaby’s sake.
Melissa
Tags: Daughter In Law, Marriage, Sake
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 25 Comments »
Saturday, November 22nd, 2008
Noonie asked: Both my husband and I are headstrong, and for the past 6 months I’d chalked our differences and little fights up to stubbornness on both our parts. In the last month or so, I promised myself that I would “give” a little more, you know…”choose my battles”, but it seems that it’s not working. Every little thing seems to turn into a fight and we wind up not talking. When I bring my feelings to my husband’s attention (and I make sure I point out my own faults too), he seems to want to stick to being difficult. I feel like I’m constantly being challenged. Again, with us both being headstrong, his attitude makes ME want to just say “forget it…I’m tired of being the bigger person”. Are these typical problems for a couple that has been married the length of time we’ve been? How do I work it out? (P.S., I don’t think he’s involved with someone else, so let’s not even go there, OK?) I really want to hear others’ experiences….
Dale
Tags: Attitude, Marital Problems, Marriage
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 14 Comments »
Thursday, August 7th, 2008
me for president! asked: Or who do child psychologists talk to when their children are behaving like the spawn of satan?
Any thoughts?
Thanks!!! 
Gina
Tags: Child Psychologists, Marriage, Marriage Counselors
Posted in Polls & Surveys | 5 Comments »
Saturday, August 2nd, 2008
Chris R asked: I can’t understand this. Is it just to build points or what. What a bunch of stupid answers.
Like I read a post that a man was a wonderful man but his only quirk was that when he got home, he wanted dinner ready on the table. His wife said it was odd because otherwise he was extremely fun, caring, great looking and a great provider. He just HAD to have his dinner. Response, “Leave him if he is controlling” ***! This was followed by several other people that say “leave them”.
Is Marriage that invaluable to others? Seems pathetic. Do people not realise that many marriages have problems that can be SORTED OUT rather than “leave him / her”.
Does it make anybody else angry that others would suggest this to anybody else so easily?
Hector
Tags: Many Marriages, Marriage, People
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 22 Comments »
Tuesday, March 25th, 2008
Scott M asked: My ex and I were having some marital problems. Nothing too big I thought. She had just turned 50. I came home from work, and I was used to saying hi, how’s your day, a hug and a kiss. Well this day, I finally asked what was wrong. It’d been a couple of days of not a lot of talking going on. She said and I quote ” I **** it when you come home, I should never have said yes(to marriage), I love you, but not in love with you, and I **** ***.”
We had been married 18 months, about the same as far as dating went. I thought I’d get old with her, in fact I said that in my proposal as I was on my knee.
What would be your reaction?
Thanks Lab, she has had the surgery and is getting the homonal shots
Todd
Tags: Couple Of Days, Love Hate, Marriage
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 11 Comments »
Wednesday, February 13th, 2008
No Name Girl asked: She is Christian woman and has 4 children with her husband. She has been going to marriage counseling for about 10 months with her husband and by herself. But, she tells me today that she really doesn’t see much of a change in her husband and she is desperate to work it out. Also, that he thinks it is stupid to go to the counselor who is only putting ideas in her head and that they were happy before they met with the counselor. He said he doesn’t want her to go anymore. But, she cried to me at my house today and said he has an anger problem, is verbally and emotionally abusive to her and her kids. She has no job right now and her youngest is three. She said her husband hasn’t hit her, but about a year ago he got violent with their 5 year old. I just don’t know what in the world to tell her!!! I hugged her and was shocked because I didn’t know things were that bad. What should I tell her to do?
Billy
Tags: Anger Problem, Hasn, Marriage
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 4 Comments »
Thursday, January 24th, 2008
Romans 8:28 asked: I can’t help but notice that the first answer for most of these questions regarding problems in a marriage boils down to things like “Get a divorce” or “leave” or “kick them out” or “give an ultimatum”. When people take their marriage vows, they vow “For better or worse”, so why is everybody so ready to call it quits (or to tell somebody else to) when “worse” comes along? Life is NOT a fairytale and nobody is perfect…
Karen
Tags: Life Is Not A Fairytale, Marriage, Ultimatum
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 26 Comments »
Saturday, January 12th, 2008
girlinlove asked: If so, whats the problem(s) in your marriage?
Kim
Tags: Marital Problems, Marriage
Posted in Marriage & Divorce | 4 Comments »
